How College Students Aren’t Quite Real Adults Yet
We college kids sometimes get tossed into the category of adulthood. Heck, we sometimes throw ourselves into the mix, but this is not the best description for ourselves. College kids may be out there on our own in a new city, but I wouldn’t qualify our 18-20 something year-old selves to be the wise adults; more like “adults in training.” Better yet, call us for what we are, “college kids”: the first word “college” implies a next-level of schooling, the second implies exactly what we are in the real world. Kids. See why below.
We Think In “Semester” Time
When have you ever heard a college student NOT refer to something that happened during a certain semester? “Yeah, we dated in the fall, but broke up in the spring semester.” “This semester is when I’ll start working out.” “Do you remember last semester when we went out to that bar? No, not summer, last spring.” We literally cannot recall things if you only give us dates, numbers, or months. “Come on dude, I remember that day because of Chemistry lab, not because it was October 3rd.”
We Schedule Our Lives Around Class (that we may or may not go to)
And we will milk this to no end. Class is the reason we have structure in our days, even if we don’t end up going. To us, class is ALSO the reason that we feel we cannot fit anything else into our schedule, because well, these expensive hour-long lectures will always trump a doctor’s appointment or a shift at work. Sometimes this works to our advantage, sometimes this makes us feel like we actually can’t be a normal person. “I’m a student, and therefore immune to your request for my presence” is the mindset we students live by.
Nutrition is Important, But So Is Electricity and Happy Hour
Priorities are still being molded in our newly-found freedom and high-stress hours of studying. Either we’re having to endure dining hall selections, or learn how to properly feed ourselves without completely wiping out our bank accounts. But, unless we’re big health gurus to begin with, other things will be much more tempting to invest in then a fridge full of vegetables. There’s a reason that Ramen and takeout are stereotypical college meals. Budgeting is a new concept, and sometimes we’ll have to sacrifice a nice week of meals for a month of indoor lighting and end-of-the-week cocktails.
We Can Turn Any Night Into “College Night”
And this really isn’t our fault. Yeah, it may be our choice to pair our study groups with a glass (bottle) of wine, but how can you come down on our ways when our college town has a special event every single day?! Where there’s a college campus, there is some bar or restaurant hosting some special that we can’t turn down. We may have a test or two tomorrow, but no one is stopping us from catching that BOGO on appetizers and beer down the road. We only get four years of this privilege.
We Shop Based On Who Gives Out Student Discounts
“Yeah one place may have a better selection of produce, but did you know this other place gives 20% off to students?” We flock to discounts like opposite ends of a magnet, sometimes for things we don’t even need. But, for the most part, we shape our shopping venue selection based on who will give us the biggest percent off. You won’t catch us without our student ID. EVER.
Doing Anything Like an “Adult” Feel Like a Well-Deserved Girl Scout Patch
We’re living on our own and out of our parents house, however, we’re still learning the ways of the world. Setting up our own appointments? All on us. Cooking for ourselves? Up to us. All of this new responsibility is not something that feels second nature just yet, but more like playing “House” and seeing how many things we can do correctly before we have to call our family for help on how to fix our mess.
We’ll get to the adult stuff, eventually. But, for now, lets see ourselves for what we truly are: “kids” in college.